P.Z. Myers can be an acerbic sort of fellow at times, especially to those of faith.
His Sunday blog post really hit a sore spot inside me. I used to think life was simple in my former "believer" state of mind. "Pray to Jesus and your problems will be solved." "Surrender to God and He will take care of you." "The 'simplicity of the gospel' is all a person needs to live." "All things work together for good." (This never seemed to work the way I thought it should much to my chagrin over many years of trying. These kinds of platitudes are rampant in the Christian world.)
This thinking is also simplistic, lazy, childish, and an irresponsible way to approach life. It mummifies a person's brain and the synapses that should fire don't fire. Problems that a person should or could be solving go unsolved waiting for their God to do it. How many times did I miss an opportunity to progress while waiting for God to move? How many relationships were harmed because I failed to act on behalf of myself or someone else while waiting for God to do something about the situation?
There will never be a complete set of answers to these questions. Many memories have already been lost by the brain never to be recovered. There are a few, however, that come to mind and those are regrettable, almost unconquerable events. The past is impossible to change. It contains circumstances that will affect me for the rest of my life, leaving a sadness which makes its rounds every once in a while.
I'm not any kind of an expert on these matters. This is just the way it seems to me. We all need to make sense of our life story in order to continue moving forward. Better to be honest rather than delusional. Figuring out the difference between the two is the difficult task we all face.